Yes, I want to discern when to speak up and when to, like you say, keep my mouth shut. I think it was the dairy video that pushed me over the edge, feminist that I am. I will say the one you feature in this story was a little triggering. Never been raped, but the way they talked so matter-of-factly about it was disconcerting. Probably because I totally missed that it was a fictitious world where rape is legal. I kept thinking, "Rape's not legal; why do they keep saying that?" Oh well, I was slow figuring it out.